how do you know, when your not in love with someone anymore?..
at what point do you realize it?..
the phrase im use to saying.."its complicated"..applies here...once youve moved on from your former relationship..
(whether its just talking to other peole,or havin a buch of bitches)
but your still in love with that person..when have you really moooooved on?
this is the question i have been asking myself..seeing it hppen in so many other people...you can easily just move on from a person. but letting that person go..that means breaking from that bond and whatevr else..i think this happens when you find someone else..not just ANY someone else either..it has to be someone your actully thinking of being with serously of course..
you cant trully move on from your past unless you have a present..a future..someone who helps you to move foward...now..what if your stuck in the middle?.. and i dont mean, having trouble choseing between the two..because you know for a fact that you will not be with the former..any time soon..but you still keep holding on..i think its okay to hold on..but you shuold never be stuck on the same person if your not going to be with them.it always makes it harder to deal with "no more title"..because you know they arnt tryna b with you..so why waiste time putting forth effort and feelings,that wont result in anything..
being friends is totally diffrent..if you know that you can handle a friendship,after a break up, then go for it..but sending a man mixed feelings just frustrates them an pushes them away. dont be friends with an EX if you cant handle it. wanna play dumn?...i mean, if you cant hanndle him telling you he went out the night before with his boys,and pulled more hoes then the rest..lol...then you need to seperate yourself from him.
PERSONALLY, i see my ex as one of my bestfriend..BUT, i think im able to be so close to him because he lives so far away..so i dont have to go thru seeing him at skool everyday or n e thing horrifying like that. we prolly wuldnt be as close as we are,if he lived in LA..only bkus i know how i am.. at the same time, if i came across someone else that i was trying to be with, i wouldnt feel bad..not because HE broke up with ME..but because he made the clear decision that i prolly wouldnt have ended up in his future as far as a "relationship" is concerned..the last thing im gunna do is feel bad or guilty or whatever else..
im not kold hearted or nuthin..but its just like, if theres one last pair of duncks in your size on the shelf, but you realize, its prolly not a good idea to get them RIGHT NOW..for whatever reason..theres no gaurentee that they will be there 2marro when your ready to go pick them up.....so im those pair of SO VERY FRESH duncks,..but someone else found me,bought me, and is wearin me now......damn im good
"LOVE...sO MANY PEOPLE USE YOUR NAME IN VAIN.....
LOVE..THOSE WHO HAVE FAITH IN YOU,SOMETIMES GO ASTRAY....."
-Musiq-